Sometimes in life we all have to make decisions.. not only the small ones that will change our life in small ways but the big ones that will change our life completely, that will change the whole direction of our life..

Such decisions should be based on.. in which direction you want to go.. where do you see yourself.. where do you want to be..

Sometimes you don’t want to make any decisions.. because you’re afraid to make changes in how your life is going right now.. and are way too comfortable in the place and how you are right now.

Not making a decision is also a decision.

The decision to stay the same.. but you know still water runs dry.. so it’s definitely not a good idea or a decision to stay the same for a very long time or to be at a place where you used to be.

The decisions you make should be make keeping their outcomes and consequences both in mind.. they shouldn’t be solely based on your emotions.. they should be more practical.
You are always one decision away from a totally different life.. if you don’t like where you are today, then you have to do something about it.. Only dreaming and wishing won’t work.
New decisions, new choices will lead you in a different direction.. the direction which takes you towards your goal.

Old ways won’t open new doors.

We have to make decisions we’re scared about.. because we don’t grow when we stay inside our comfort zone, in our everyday normal life..

Those decisions that makes heart beat faster should be make.. change should be initiated and accepted because nothing changes if nothing changes.. and nothing grows..
Even a seed goes through several changes in it’s lifetime to turn into a big fruitful tree.

Growth is often uncomfortable.

It’s full of unwanted feelings.. it’s messy and difficult to accept, it’s because of the human nature to resist the change or unexpected feelings or situations..
But in the end, if you want to grow, evolve you have to make decisions and have to decide practically.

Take time relax and then think about all the good outcomes and results.. and also consequences of making that decision.

Evaluate well.

Give yourself enough time and then finally make it..
Take the risk otherwise you’ll lose your opportunity or chance that you’ve been waiting for so long..

And you know what’s wrost..

The regret of lost chances.. missed opportunities and the decisions you didn’t made when you had the time,

So think about it..
Take the risk and go for it.. 😉

Keep smiling 😋

Stay blessed 🌼

© Dreamer❤️

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  4. After reading this, it felt like, koi kaan pakadke mujhe mujhe samjha raha hai, the values of opportunities & all those confusing things that you just made simpler for me to understand by writing this write up, thanks for writing this Miss Dreamer 😊 & I loved the example of water 👍

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  13. Very motivating thoughts on risks and taking decisions. Really appreciate it. As someone says rightly “Your comfort zone will kill you”. It was Neil Armstrong who took the risk to land on the moon first, so everyone knows about him. No one remembers the second person; isn’t it?. The best example of taking the risk.

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  15. I used to listen this song:

    “How Far I’ll Go”
    Song by Alessia Cara
    From animated movie “Moana”

    Notice how many times Moana failed in her journey.
    How nature helped her throughout.

    Quite inspiring 😊

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